The Real Reasons Opposites Attract in Relationships

Unveiling the Hidden Forces That Shape Your Relationships

In the complex world of modern dating, you’ve likely heard the age-old adage that “opposites attract.” Hollywood has perpetuated this notion, showcasing whirlwind romances between opposites. But what if we told you that there’s more to love than meets the eye? It’s time to debunk the myths, unravel the mysteries, and open yourself up to the possibility of genuine, soulful connections.

The Ahava Healing Modality

As I embarked on the journey to create the Ahava Healing Modality, I delved deep into the enigma of why we repeatedly find ourselves drawn to the same types of partners, expecting different results each time. It’s a puzzle that’s confounded many, from failed diets to New Year’s resolutions. While I won’t bore you with the details of my 25-year exploration (you can watch the video here), I stumbled upon a revelation that not only explained why we fall into destructive patterns but also provided a roadmap to break free from them.

Around 15 years ago, while developing my theory, I became immersed in the analysis of codependent triangulation. This isn’t the pop culture notion of codependency but a deeper understanding of how this intricate web entangles most of our relationships, past, present, and future. It’s as if we’re stuck on an endless merry-go-round, unable to disembark, and inadvertently dating the same people repeatedly. This phenomenon has contributed to a staggering 90% failure rate on dating apps and countless other relationship pitfalls. It was then that I decided to create my method for understanding and solving this conundrum.

Introducing the Love Board 

A revolutionary tool that’s far from mystical tarot card readings or psychic mumbo jumbo. We’re not clairvoyants; we’re data analysts, dissecting the intricate patterns in your life that formed before your 10th birthday. Imagine each of us as a collection of data points, behavioral patterns, and sequential numbers, all pointing to our true selves. Emotional pain, the “Big P,” experienced during childhood sets in motion a system that governs our lives, particularly our emotional experiences. This system becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, anchoring the codependent triangle in our lives, and attracting individuals who fit into this toxic dynamic.

The truth is, we’re not consciously seeking more pain, but the pain continues to rule our lives until we pluck out the thorn that wounded our capacity for love and belonging. Through the Love Board process, we uncover your genuine desires, untainted by pain, and reveal your true self — buried beneath the weight of childhood trauma. It’s a treasure trove of magical data that we often ignore consciously but holds the key to your authentic self and the love that awaits you on the brighter side of the moon.

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It’s time to rewrite your love story and break free from the patterns that no longer serve you. Your true love match is out there, waiting to be discovered.